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Top 5 Adult Dating Sites

We've tested all the Adult Dating Sites. Here are the top 5!


Adult FriendFinder | No. 1 | 9.0 out of 10

What They Say: Adult FriendFinder is the world's largest adult sex and swingers site! You can find new hookups with the hottest singles and wildest couples. Whether you're looking for sex chat, nude webcams, swinger action, group sex, or adult personals, you'll get it on Adult FriendFinder. Turn your wildest fantasies into reality. Join today and make love tonight!

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What We Say: AFF is the best adult personals site in existence. Just about every feature you can think of is at your disposal, assuming you're willing to upgrade to one of the higher tier membership plans. You are bound to find local singles or couples that want to meet you, but you'll need to work for it. Keep an eye out for spam traps and help AFF clean up the site. full review



Fling | No. 2 | 8.5 out of 10

What They Say: Hook up with sexy singles looking for fun adult dating on! Search millions of singles & swingers, and meet real people with verified photos near Toronto. Share sexy pics, explore erotic fantasies, and have a fling right now using our live video web cam chat.

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What We Say: Fling has a fresh membership base, and is dead simple to use. Fling offers only the features you really need and not much extra. Like almost all adult personals Fling does has it's fair share of spams and scams. With excellent search tools and video chat it's easy to meet singles, or couples if that's what you're into. I was able to hook up without much difficulty at all, 3 times in a month, proving Fling works. full review



Lavalife Intimate | No. 3 | 8.0 out of 10

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Lavalife is a new brand...a new community...a new world...a new vision for single life. Lavalife is solely dedicated to enhancing the lives of singles.

More specifically, Lavalife offers singles anytime, anywhere connections that make single life a positive, fulfilling and self-esteem building experience through relationship opportunities, social interaction and a like minded community of ideas and information.

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What We Say: Lavalife (Intimate section) is an excellent adult personals site.  This is the best site for you if you love sex and want a monogomous relationship.  Lavalife has a credit pay for what you use system, and no hidden costs.  Some minor negatives are the lack of hardcore photo postings, limited sexual profiling, and lack of people looking for one nighters.  The service is virtually spam free, and serves up only legitimate profiles of people looking for serious connections.  Lavalife has all the tools you need to make your search for a partner successful. full review | No. 4 | 7.5 out of 10

What They Say: is the world's largest BDSM & Alternative Lifestyle Personals.  We offer a supportive alternative lifestyle community with anonymous email, chat, and instant messaging. has Millions of profiles with sexy photos!  

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What We Say: is the best site around if you have fetishes you need fufilled.  There are tons of singles and couples available to choose from and many features available for free members.  Membership costs are very reasonable (actually far less than AFF) but there is a minimum 4 month commitment.  You will come accross some spammers on, but the profiles are generally pretty easy to spot.  Hooking up did take some time and effort but no more so than other adult dating sites. adult dating is definately worth while if you're want to take a walk on the wild side. full review



Eroticy | No. 5 | 7.0 out of 10

What They Say: Eroticy offers more than just adult content and dating opportunities.  People join Eroticy for a sense of community.  The relationships that people develop here are not bound by geography, society, or culture and are often deep, rich, and long lasting.  Members earn merit and community standing by accumulating points earned by activity on the site, earning other member's admiration and being added to their favorites lists, and otherwise being active members of the Eroticy community.

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Eroticy is a good adult personals site that offers a long list of features including excellent search capabilities and community driven member ranking system.  Whether you enjoy real or virtual sex this is worth checking out.  The site does have a lot of ads and spam traps, which will require somewhat of a learning curve to overcome.  There are about 3 Million members on the service, and a fully working 3 day trial membership is offered. full review

Review Rating /10 (Outstanding)

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